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Obituary

Sister Marie Grace Molloy

Sister Marie Grace Molloy passed away on Sunday, July 12, 2026, at Providence Health Care at Saint Mary-of-the-Woods, Indiana. She was 94-years-old and had been a Sister of Providence for 75 years.

Commentary

By Sister Paula Damiano, SP

And Mary said: “My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; rejoices in God my savior. For God has looked upon me in my lowliness; behold, from now on all ages will call me blessed. The Mighty One has done great things for me, and holy is God’s name. The Lord’s mercy is from age to age to those who fear God. God has shown great might, dispersed the arrogant of mind and heart. God has thrown down the rulers from their thrones but lifted up the lowly. The hungry are filled with good things; and the rich sent away empty. God has helped Israel his servant, remembering tender mercy, according to the promise made to our ancestors, to Abraham and to his descendants forever.” – Luke 1:46-55

We come together this afternoon in deep gratitude for the life of Sister Marie Grace Molloy, a woman whose 94 years were a quiet, steady hymn of fidelity.

Born on June 12, 1932, in Indianapolis to John Molloy and Grace Wagner, Mary Ellen Molloy grew up in St. Patrick Parish, surrounded by the faith that would shape her entire life. Her early education at St. Patrick Grade School and St. John Academy nurtured her love of learning, a love she later carried into her own ministry as a teacher.

On February 2, 1951, she entered the Sisters of Providence and was given the name, Sister Marie Grace. She professed first vows on August 15, 1953, and final vows on August 15, 1958 – commitments she lived with unwavering devotion for more than seven decades. Her life was marked by simplicity, humility and a deep devotion to Mary that guided her prayer and her choices.

Sister received both Bachelor and Master degrees in Education. Additionally, she earned numerous certifications ranging from Diocesan Catechetical instructor, Rural ministry to Gospel Spirituality to name only a few.

Most of Sister Marie Grace’s ministerial life unfolded in Catholic grade schools across Indiana, with six additional years in Illinois. She taught with patience, joy and a gentle steadiness that helped children feel safe, seen and capable. She formed young hearts as much as young minds.

Sister Marie Grace Molloy (right) with her companion Sister Martha Joseph Wessel.

A letter sent in 2022 from a former student was found among Marie Grace’s belongings. It reads in part, “Dear Sister Marie Grace, I’ve been teaching elementary school for the past 24 years, in large part due to the influence you had on me when I was in fourth grade. One particular conversation stands out in my memory and I reflect on it often. I think my mom was going to be late picking me up, or maybe she was polishing pews in the church, as she so often did, and you and I were talking after school. I remember asking you, ‘How do you know that God hears you when you pray?’ You went on to tell me about how God is always listening and that while it may not be evident at the time that we’re praying, that God is always there. I’ve never forgotten that conversation.”

She goes on in the letter to tell Marie Grace how these words carried her through her young daughter’s cancer diagnosis. “Through it all,” she said, “I knew God was with me and heard my prayers. You assured me of that so many years ago.”

Later, as an archivist for the Congregation, Sister Marie Grace tended the community’s memory with reverence and precision – preserving stories, documents and histories that continue to shape the Sisters of Providence today.

Sister Su-Hsin Huang, who ministers in Archives, said that Marie Grace had RAM – Random Access Memory. If you’re familiar with computers, you know RAM stores active data that your processor needs instantly. Sister Su-Hsin said Marie Grace actually was Random Access Memory.

The Sisters of Providence of Saint Mary-of-the-Woods, Indiana, Archives Department includes (seated, from left) the late Sister Marianne Mader, Sister Janet Gilligan, (back, from left) the late Sister Maureen Abbott, the late Sister Mary Rita Griffin and Sister Marie Grace Molloy.

You could ask her nearly anything about the Congregation’s history and she could give the answer right there on the spot, or could find the information for you in just a few hours. Sister Martha Wessel affirmed this, saying Marie Grace was the walking archives of the community.

Her colleagues and friends remember her with affection, humor and deep respect. Sister Janet Gilligan shared that “she had the maintenance guys wrapped around her little finger.” When something needed fixing in the Archives, they knew that asking Marie Grace to phone would get speedy attention because she knew each of the facilities staff my name, and they responded to her with immediate warmth.

Janet also recalled her absolute devotion to the Archives. “She was compulsive about coming to the office from 8-11 a.m., 1-2 p.m., every weekday – unless there was a party in Lourdes. Parties always took precedence.”

Their friendship was marked by ease and mutual acceptance. Janet reflected, “Marie Grace and I were a near perfect mesh. Neither of us asked the other to be a different person. We accepted each other for who we were and had skills that complemented each other’s. What was not to love about Marie Grace?”

Her dear friend and health-care agent, Sister Mary Beth Klingel, offered her own reflection: “She was generous, long-suffering, very accommodating, precise, extremely knowledgeable regarding Archives, and very responsive to those who made inquiries.”

Sister Marie Grace Molloy in the Sisters of Providence Archives department leads Stephanie in officially signing in. The entrance books contain the names of all Sisters of Providence who have entered the Congregation since 1840.

She loved her family deeply and they loved her – visiting often, calling frequently and staying close through the years. She companioned her sister Gertrude, who became a Providence Associate, with devotion and quiet care.

Mary Beth remembered her as private, especially in her dying: “She wanted to be allowed to go through the dying process in silence.” The Providence Health Care staff cared for her with great tenderness, and she for them. Her simplicity was evident in every aspect of her life – her frugality, her uncluttered room, her desire never to inconvenience anyone. She delighted in community life at Woodhaven, where she lived for 11 years – sitting on the porch, teasing Sister Elizabeth Meyer, and receiving Elizabeth’s playful French response, “ferme ta bouche,” “stop talking!” always said with love.

Her dying unfolded slowly, mysteriously. Her niece Molly and Sister Mary Beth joked that perhaps she lingered to get some mileage out of a recent hair perm – one she considered a waste of money since she was to be cremated – and to enjoy a bit more time in her private room.

Mary Beth continued, “And every day she was able, she visited the Shrine of Saint Mother Theodore.” That devotion, steady and heartfelt, says everything about the woman we honor today.

Tributes from her family are numerous.

A nephew, Pete, his wife, Debbie, and their family, shared this loving remembrance:

“Sister Marie Grace lived a life defined by kindness, warmth and a genuine love for people. She always had a smile on her face and a way of making everyone feel seen and remembered. One of the things that stood out most was her incredible memory – she knew every member of the large Molloy family, how everyone was connected, from cousins to grandkids to great-grandkids. It was remarkable and it showed just how deeply she cared about each person.

“She also had a wonderful sense of humor. I’ll always remember her and Aunt Gertie sharing jokes and laughter, bringing lightness to every gathering. She never forgot a birthday – mine included – and she would always take the time to ask, ‘How’s the school year going?’ Those small, thoughtful moments meant so much. Sister Marie Grace was truly a sweetheart, and she was deeply loved by all of us. She will be missed more than words can express.”

Sister Marie Grace Molloy offered a reading during the blessing of the Good Shepherd Chapel on Sunday, August 30, 2020.

Her niece Molly writes, “Sister Marie Grace was an amazing individual who influenced so many of us in such positive ways. She is one of the reasons I became a teacher. She was always sharing ideas and programs with me.

“I can’t come to the Woods without going to the Shrine and reflecting on all that she taught us about Saint Mother Theodore Guerin and her mission. On the aunt-side of things, she always kept the family lines connected. She was so very kind, non-judgmental, always thinking of others. I will miss sharing good books, social commentary and her dry sense of humor. Mostly, I will just miss her terribly.”

A cousin, Marilyn, shared how proud she is to be related to such a wonderful person, who gave so much of her life to helping others and a second cousin, Cheryl, stated that Marie Grace’s legacy could be summed up in the words from Proverbs: “Train children in the way they should go, and when they are older, they shall not depart from it.”

Each of these tributes echo what so many experienced: Her attentiveness, her humor, her memory, her devotion, her love.

Sister Marie Grace died peacefully on July 12, and will rest in the Cemetery of the Sisters of Providence here at the Woods. She is survived by loving nieces and nephews, and reunited in eternal life with her parents, her brothers Patrick, John and Michael, and sisters Kathleen Crayton and Gertrude Andrews.

Sister Marie Grace Molloy (right) and her guest, Sister Mary Beth Klingel.

Today, we remember a woman whose life was not only long, but beautifully lived – faithful, humble, joyful and full of grace. She lived simply, loved deeply, served generously and prayed quietly. Her life was a modern Magnificat, sung not in words but in decades of devotion.

Mary’s great hymn of praise – “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior” – was the shape of Sister Marie Grace’s life. The Magnificat proclaims God’s mercy, God’s faithfulness, God’s lifting up of the humble, God’s delight in those who serve quietly and wholeheartedly.

The prayer speaks of:

  • A heart overflowing with gratitude,
  • A life rooted in humility,
  • A trust in God’s Providence,
  • A commitment to justice and compassion, and
  • A recognition that God works through the small, the simple, the faithful.

This was Sister Marie Grace.

Her devotion to Mary was not sentimental; it was steady, daily, lived. Like Mary, she magnified the Lord not through grand gestures, but through quiet fidelity – teaching children, preserving the Congregation’s history, loving her family, living simply and praying with her whole heart.

The Magnificat ends with a promise that God remembers mercy from generation to generation. Sister Marie Grace carried that mercy into every classroom, every archival box, every porch conversation and every gentle act of kindness.

Her life was a Magnificat in motion.

Finally, there are words written by Marie Grace herself. A nephew, Dan, found a letter Marie Grace wrote to her sister, Gertie, during the COVID pandemic. “When this ends, may we find that we have become more like the people we want to be; we were called to be, we hoped to be, and may we stay that way – better for each other because of the worst.”

Sisters Mary Moloney and Marie Grace Molloy laugh with others at their table during the annual meeting days with associates.

Clearly, her faith was firm; God was her constant companion.

Several years ago, in a course on Spirituality, Marie Grace was asked to write her Creed – what she believed about various aspects of faith.

She concluded her creed with these words, “I believe that the life of the world to come will be a place of perfect harmony. There will be no dissensions, nothing that will interfere with the reality of a peaceable kingdom, for I will see God, and once I have seen God face to face nothing else will matter.”

Thank you so much, Sister Marie Grace.

Funeral Information

Funeral services for Sister Marie Grace will take place on Tuesday, July 21, and Wednesday, July 22, in the Church of the Immaculate Conception at Saint Mary-of-the-Woods.

A Wake will take place from 3:30-4:30 p.m., on Tuesday, July 21, with Vesper Services at 4:30 p.m.

An additional Wake will take place from 10-11 a.m., on Wednesday, July 22. Mass of Christian Burial will be at 11 a.m.

Memorial contributions may be made in honor of Sister Marie Grace to the Sisters of Providence of Saint Mary-of-the-Woods.

We welcome you to share your memories of Sister Marie Grace in the comment section below.

Sister Marie Grace Molloy

Complete Ministry

In Indiana: Teacher, St. John School, Vincennes (1953-57); Teacher/Principal, Cathedral, Fort Wayne (1964-67); Teacher, Immaculate Heart, Indianapolis (1967-68); Teacher, St. Joseph, Indianapolis (1968-69); Teacher, St. John the Baptist, Whiting (1969-70); Teacher, St. Jude, Indianapolis (1970-74); Teacher, St. Joseph, Jasper (1974-75); Teacher, St. Philip Neri, Indianapolis (1980-81); Teacher, Nativity School, Indianapolis (1981-2001); Tutor, Dyslexia of Indiana, Indianapolis (2001-10); Coordinator of St John Academy/St. Agnes Academy Alums (2001-12); Archives Assistant, Saint Mary-of-the-Woods (2010-12); Coordinator of St. John Academy Alumnae (2012-22); Volunteer, Archives, Saint Mary-of-the-Woods (2012-25); Prayer, Saint Mary-of-the-Woods (2025-26).

In Illinois: Teacher, St. Genevieve School, Chicago (1957-58); Teacher, St. Genevieve School, Chicago (1958-64).

Sisters of Providence

Sisters of Providence

The Sisters of Providence of Saint Mary-of-the-Woods, Indiana, are a congregation of Roman Catholic women religious (sisters) who minister throughout the United States and Taiwan. Saint Mother Theodore Guerin founded the Sisters of Providence in 1840. The congregation has a mission of being God's Providence in the world by committing to performing works of love, mercy and justice in service among God's people.

2 Comments

  1. Sister Marie Grace was my cousin. She has been an inspration to me all my life. I think I became a teacher because of her. She is the most selfless and pure person that I have ever met. She will always be remembered as a wonderful member of my family. Rest in peace my dear sweet cousin. I know there will be grilled cheese sandwiches (your favorite) in heaven.

  2. I first met Sister Marie Grace at Nativity in Indianapolis. I was a recent convert and a young father and was in need of some prayer. While I had not yet fully immersed myself in all of the sacraments, I sought her out after Mass one day and asked her for prayer. Assuming she would oblige on her own time, I was surprised when she asked me to sit down immediately with her. We spoke for 15-20 minutes after mass as she counseled me, prayed with me, and left me with a book recommendation (The Dark Night of the Soul). I was an absolute stranger to her and yet she showed me the love of Christ without hesitation. That was easily 20 years ago and something that I will never ever forget. I think of Sister Marie Grace often and prayer for her. I will now regularly pray for her soul and thank God for her.

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