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Spending an Afternoon as Mrs. Claus: Love begets Love

I decided to go all out this year.

So, there I was, late on “Black Friday,” scouring amazon.com for the perfect Mrs. Santa Claus outfit to wear for our annual Christmas Fun event here at Saint Mary-of-the-Woods.

Drawn, of course, to those “costumes” marked 50 percent off, I soon found just the one – dress, apron, wig, bonnet, and fake spectacles – the perfect ensemble to carry out my role as the greeter at the entrance to the event.

Extrovert though I am, I was somewhat nervous about donning this outfit on the big day and taking my assigned place.

The first child who threw his arms around my legs and hugged me put me at ease. That was followed almost immediately by the little one who motioned to be picked up so she could give me a proper hug.

The afternoon was filled with encounters like this – whether our teen volunteers interacted with the little ones or Santa himself lent an ear to receive a Christmas wish – there was freedom from fear and faces flush with expressions of joy.

Even the child who snatched Jesus out of the manger scene seemed to know that Jesus was meant to be embraced. Would that it be so for all our encounters.

As I headed home at the end of the day, I encountered Sister Mary Montgomery’s little gaggle of grandnieces and nephews. When they spotted me, one of them cried out “it’s Mrs. Claus!” What a perfect ending to the day.

I asked them about the activities they had participated in and whether they had visited Santa Claus. One of the children responded, “Do you love him?”

I was a bit stunned. Was he asking me in my role as Mrs. Claus? Or did he just want to know if a “grown-up” loved Santa Claus?

Later, I asked myself: How do I love whoever shows up? Am I embracing the people and circumstances of my life with the same joyful anticipation as these children? Am I attentive or distracted? How will I commemorate the incarnation – the great coming of God as one of us?

If we take this Christmas season seriously, there are consequences for how we should live. Spending an afternoon as Mrs. Claus helped me remember that love begets love. There is no better example of this than the life of Jesus, Emmanuel, God with us.

I did tell the little ones that I love Santa Claus. I wish I had said to them that I love Jesus, too. But perhaps during Christmas Fun at the Woods, I/we showed them what loving Santa Claus or Jesus means. I hope so. I pray that I/we will share that love the whole year through.

Merry Christmas from Mrs. Claus and from the Sisters of Providence of Saint Mary-of-the-Woods. May you experience blessings of love, peace and joy throughout this coming new year – and more than a few hugs!

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Sister Dawn Tomaszewski

Sister Dawn Tomaszewski

Sister Dawn Tomaszewski was elected General Superior of the Sisters of Providence in 2016. She has been a Sister of Providence since 1975. Previously she ministered as a teacher, as communication and development director for the sisters and their ministries and as a member of elected leadership on the general council of the Sisters of Providence.

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5 Comments

  1. Avatar Donna Butler on December 25, 2024 at 6:28 am

    Dawn,
    What a delightful and meaningful reflection!

  2. Avatar Mary Montgomery on December 25, 2024 at 9:12 am

    Oh, Dawn!
    A very blessed Christmas season to you and your loved ones! Thank you for this fun, friendly and encouraging reflection. Love the picture and bit about the little ones! 🎄🙏❤️

    • Avatar Dawn Tomaszewski SP on December 25, 2024 at 10:25 am

      It was fun to be with YOUR little ones!

  3. Avatar Deb Griffey on December 25, 2024 at 10:30 am

    You were a great Mrs. Claus! And this reflection that transitions Mrs. Claus’ love and acceptance into our own need to be loving and accepting as Christ was is a reminder to us this day. Merry Christmas, Dawn!

  4. Avatar Lorraine Kirker PA on December 25, 2024 at 11:14 am

    Wonderful. That live and joy was so evident last night at my parish Vigil Mass when most of my once strong faith sharing group attended all but one of us sat together in two short rows. The other was with her family in the handicap row which had room for the wheelchair chair she spends her waking hours in since a stroke about four years ago.,Though the Faith sharing group no longer meets regularly, a victim of the pandemic, our live and care for each other has never diminished. I came home thinking it was probably my favorite Christmas Eve ever. Many of us will gather again in a week to welcome the New Year. Truly blessed is how I feel this morning and always. Thank you for making my morning. 🥰

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