Social justice best practices: Stop bystanding
One area where we can all take action in our daily lives is to stop bystanding. The bystander theory, also referred to as the bystander effect, is when the presence of others discourages an individual from intervening in an emergency situation, against a bully or during an assault or other offenses.
This can be very difficult because many of us do not want to say anything to avoid conflict. By not saying anything, we give the one offending power they did not have before. We should not tolerate unacceptable actions, words or behaviors.
Lehigh University recommends five steps to stop being a bystander.
- Notice the event: Pay attention to what is going on around you.
- Interpret it as a problem: Do not be sidetracked by ambiguity, conformity, or peer pressure.
- Assume personal responsibility: Do not assume someone else will do something.
- Know how to help: Remember to never put yourself in harm’s way by aggressiveness or confrontation. However, something as simple as making a noise will draw attention to the situation. Pulling out your phone and taking pictures or video. Or call 911.
- Implement the help: Do Something. ACT!